Be prepared for “them.” “They” are as many as the streets of Manhattan. You had been prepared a bit, but you didn’t expect that. “They” are as many as the streets of Brooklyn, Staten Island, Queens, and The Bronx together…
What are we talking about? The languages, dialects & accents you hear in NYC. They are literally countless. You think you have heard them all, but like the heads of the mythical Lernaean Hydra, new of them pop up once in a while and remind you that they will never “die.” That happens because New York has always welcomed them and made room for their unique sounds. We appreciate it New York! Thank you for not being rude or offensive to anyone who can’t speak proper English. That kindness is noteworthy, and all who live here agree on that, but should we take advantage of your generosity and never improve our English skills?
The number of the languages found in NYC should be expected. After all, New York is home to people from all nations. We know… you thought you would see here mostly “authentic” Americans who speak the English language you had been taught back in your country, to practice your English and make it better day after day. You did find the “authentic”, those who have been born in the US and thus speak the language fluently, but the truth is that a big part of the city speaks little or no English, and that disappoints you…
However, this is America, and this is the authentic New York. A nation, a city, built by immigrants. Do not get upset when broken or no English is spoken in many neighborhoods. If those New Yorkers are new in the Big Apple, give them some time. Do not get upset, but instead admire their courage to leave their countries or families behind for a better tomorrow.
Be sad, only a little, or let some anger steam rise above your head when after years of having lived in the city, immigrants show no or minimal improvement in the way they speak. Yes, in that case, you should kindly advise them that as a “give back” to the city that welcomed them and accepted them in its life, they should learn its language and its certain manners, at least a little. A genuine effort is always applauded.
Otherwise, you may go to a new neighborhood, ask a person for the right directions on your way to your destination, and wish you spoke the sign language fluently so you can exchange some “words.” You ask one, two, three people, and you sadly realize that the mission to Mars has come faster than was planned… Your attempts to communicate are fruitless.
We have experienced firsthand how it feels when you speak English poorly. We still make countless mistakes, but we keep trying… and with some hours study per day for a few years, or even an hour only, not only can we speak better, but we can also write you right now a few words. The language never comes and knocks on your door, and it is never learned after a gentle touch of Harry Potter’s magic wand! It needs your willingness to study it and your continuous dedication.
We highly appreciate the hard work of all immigrants, their courage, their dreams… Who doesn’t agree that if they ever had to leave the city, NY would collapse overnight? They work hard and help it stay alive and attractive, but all who live in this city should try to be part of it and at the same time to keep their language and culture alive. Let’s always remember that the knowledge of English always opens doors and… windows, and it lets new ideas and new worlds come through them on the wind.
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